I recently started to wonder if I had philophobia because I have had crushes before but any thought of a relationship makes me really nervous. The two guys I have ever really thought well “What if” are two of my best friends and I really don’t want to ruin our friendship with a romantic relationship. A lot of people tell me to take the chance but it freaks me out and I am much comfortable in a friend role. I want something more but feel like I will mess it up and wreck two of the friendships I really like. Let me know if you have any advice or thoughts. Thanks!