I am so relived to have found other people who feel the same way about love as I do. All my friends and family thought I was making stuff up when I told them I wanted nothing to do with love.
However, many people that suffer from philophobia have had a traumatic event to cause them to develop such a mind state. I haven’t experienced such an event. Sure, my heart has been broken here and there, but I don’t believe it has to do with me developing philophobia. I lead a fairly normal life with confidence and peace, but no love to give a companion.
Is it possible to be born not wanting romantic love? Am I just crazy that I don’t want anything to do with it?
I strongly believe that the only person that I need to love in this life is me.