Im a young girl, and know youre not alone. There are plenty of girls who want true relationships with saving sex for marriage. I mean Im this way. I myself can feel terrified with commitment and have not dated before. You know it seems like punishment, protecting yourself, but even still tell yourself its going to be okay. Find a good girl, one that respects you in every decision you make, and it will all work out. Stay strong and trust yourself. Its what we have to do in this world. If you can some how turn to God, its an idea. Take care.
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