Finally a word for it ! I never knew what it was that was wrong with me I however have no problem talking to guys but when I discover they are interested in me I become hesistant to initiate anything and dona series of things to prevent me from being in a relationship. I also refuse to fully tell a guy about my whole life making it seem like there was something wrong with me. Most guys ask me if there was something in my past that happened like a previous relationship or some terrible experience when there really is nothing I just cant bring myself to be in a relationship. Its not that I dont want a relationship because I truly do I just fear being hurt and risking it all for someone. I hope one day something happens to us all that will help is get over our fear.